Ray is active in numerous charitable activities and is currently a board member of the Minnesota Chapter of the National Football League Alumni Association, Bolder Options, Mancini Hall of Fame Selection Board, and the Minnesota Chapter of the National Football Foundation. Ray is Past President of the University of Minnesota Goal Line Club. He also served 18 years as a board member of the Johnson High School Alumni Governors Club. Ray has been employed with Edina Realty for the last 25 years working in Real Estate sales and also has coached football at Cretin Derham Hall High School for the past 16 years. Before joining Edina Realty, Ray played for the Washington Redskins of the NFL where he was a member of the 1987 Super Bowl Champions. Ray is a graduate of the University of Minnesota and St. Paul Johnson High School. Ray has been married to his wife Tyanne for 27 years and they have two children, Brooks and Elise, and currently reside in Maplewood Minnesota.