Meet three of our newest Rochester mentors and hear, in their own words, why they chose to get involved and what they’re experiencing so far.

“What does it actually take to be a mentor?” The honest answer? More than people think. Mentoring isn’t just hanging out or having fun, though there’s plenty of that. It’s showing up consistently. It’s sticking with a young person even when they’re quiet, distracted, or pushing you away a little. It’s being someone they can count on, week after week. It takes patience. Flexibility. A sense of humor helps. So does the ability to try again next week when things don’t go as plan

When Erick first met Angel through Bolder Options Youth Mentoring Program, he approached the experience with an open mind and no expectations. What he found was a young person who immediately stood out for his outgoing nature and maturity. From their very first meeting, their connection felt natural and easy. Angel was open, engaged, and ready to build a relationship, and Erick quickly recognized the potential for something meaningful to grow between them. Their bond was stre